It’s so easy to be caught up in doing “big” things.
You know what I mean? Those big “occasion” kind of events – cool parties, epic holidays, fun day trips to new places, sparkly toys, birthdays, events and the other stuff you see on Instagram. To want to do and to be and to see.
Technically there’s nothing wrong with that at all. But realistically, those kinds of things only make up a small portion of your day/life. Unless you’re like, a Kardashian or something. And then, well, I don’t even know what to say about that except maybe “shame”.
The point is that it’s easy to get so super caught up in wanting to do all the big things that you forget to take time to indulge yourself in the little things. Or moving your head space from one big event to the next. Or literally running from one thing to another – always rushing. Always late. I’m so flipping guilty of this that it makes me sick.
So I’m trying to indulge a little more.
For me. For my children.
To spend a few extra minutes with a little person holding my hand, stopping to take in a beautiful sunset, packing in a few strawberries and some milkshakes then popping over to the park. Reading an extra chapter of The Faraway Tree at bedtime because their little faces are riveted with awe.
Just soaking in the moment instead of trying to move on to the next one.
Whose with me?
Side note: A few extra ways that I deal with that sneaky feeling of being discontent.
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I am SO with you! It can be so easy to get caught up in the big moments that by the time we wake up and realize its the little ones that count, its almost too late! Cheers to you for “indulging in the little things” because more often than not those little things are what stands out when you reflect on life years from now.
It is so true! We also decided few weeks back to make more time for the little things, going to various parks in our area. It is almost sad that we have to “plan” doing this, but time passes so quickly.
Poor Riya, always the one with the injury and plaster. love the pics. take more time like these in the park…
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Made me tear up! We are trying (and have been for a while) for number 2 and that ‘all consuming’ feeling really shifts your focus away from the small wonderful moments. Going to make an effort to take a step back x
Love it! I think especially with us working mums, this is so important.
With you sister!! And don’t you find that when you consciously do this, the littlies seem so much more relaxed and happier? I have just noticed that when I have consciously made and effort to take a step back and enjoy the little moments 😉 <3
all the little things make up something big!!