Parenting moves in big time chunks for me. Of course there are all the little moments that make up the big chunks – especially those hard days that drag on for-freaking-ever, but when you look back and reflect on your parenting years, it’s often in defining slots isn’t it?
For me it goes something like this:
It starts with the newborn phase – all sleepless nights and bat-turd crazy adjustments, either becoming a human cow, crying about not being able to be a human cow or struggling to get your baby to like the formula you’ve bought. The colic, the tiny fingers, the sleeping baby lying on your chest, the crying, the beautiful sweet smell of a freshly bathed baby and the stale smell of regurgitated milk on like, all your clothes. Not to mention tryiing to figure out how to stop looking like an weirdly deflated balloon.
Damnit I want another baby.
Anyway, what was I saying. Oh yes.
Then there’s the wanting to move but can’t phase, the grab all the things phase, the toddler phase, the tantrum phase, the sleeping in your bed but actually just kicking you in the face phase, the you name it and there’s a phase for it phase.
All of these phases were started with a defining moment. Learning to walk, learning to talk, dropping the need for a nappy, finally spotting the first tooth or the very first defining moment of having a little bundle placed in your arms and trying not to freak out about how you have no idea what to do now.
We’ve just had another defining moment in our house. One that really marks the next phase that we’re heading into. And that my friends, is the loss of our very first tooth.
In fairness this didn’t happen overnight. Oh no, this tooth has been hanging in there for over a week! So we decided to take matters into our own hands and shot it out with the help of a Nerf gun. Yes you heard me, we shot it out with a gun. Here’s the video:
Success! Out pops the 1st loose tooth. With a little help of a Nerf gun ? pic.twitter.com/F0oFSXD63a
— Cindy (@CindyAlfino) March 6, 2016
Poor Kyla was in a bit of shock for a while afterwards, but we were a little bit worried because her new tooth was already growing out, but much further back, so we wanted it to have the room to move into the right place as soon as possible.
And also, (maybe more importantly) what a story to share with your kids one day about how you lost your first tooth!
Obviously the tooth fairy had to make her debut and I was terrified that she would forget. Thankfully she remembered. We, uh I mean she was a bit unprepared because she didn’t expect it to be shot out with a gun on a Sunday afternoon and so I think the tooth fairy was very generous for her first tooth. But she definitely won’t be keeping up that kind of cash monies because, like, she has three children to feed and put through school and stuff.
The “wanna be special memories maker” in me couldn’t just leave it as money in a tin. So I wrote her a little note and sprinkled some glitter on it and her pillow before going to sleep. It’s not going to win any awards and it was a bit spur of the moment, but I feel like it might be the start of something great!
You had to see her face the next morning! It was priceless! Even more priceless was watching her face when we read out the note to her and seeing the shock about the fairy noticing her dirty room. It was brilliant!
Have you lost a tooth in your home? Do you just wait and leave it till it decides to fall out or do you have another fun way of pulling them out?
To celebrate this new phase I thought I’d do a little giveaway of one of my favourite (and affordable) wine brands – the chocolate Cab Sav is a firm favourite of mine. Which one is your favourite?
You know what to do:
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Loving the fact that she got a 20. When Amandalynn lost her first tooth (almost 5 years ago) I asked around on social media what the going rate was and you won’t believe it… most parents said R50 – R100.
I remember one of my first teeth being loose while visiting my grandparents. My sneaky cousin asked to look at it and tried to yank it out. She failed, and I kept a wide berth until we went home.
This really had me in fits of laughter. My child took forever to trust me with her loose teeth and they would eventually hang on a thread. Kyla is a brave girl ?
OOOH the butterscotch Cab Sav yum yum! Once I am done been pregnant of course! 16 loooong weeks till I can have a glass of wine again! Oh and I LOVED the video! That is the coolest way to get rid of a tooth 🙂
We don’t have any loose teeth yet but I keep checking lol. Love the use of the nerf gun, so something I would convince my kid to do. What is the going rate for a tooth these days? Back in my day (lokl I sound so old) we got one of those big old R1 coins per tooth.
Never tasted any of the Tangled Tree wines but sure wouldn’t mind trying it!
PS: Feel you on the “Damnit I want another baby” part.
What a good read had me smiling reading all the phases as i’m at the tantrum throwing toddler phase lol and still cutting teeth phase and what a nightmare that’s been can’t wait for tooth fairy phases 🙂
Love Sauvignon Blanc! Especially in Summertime!
Has to be the Butterscotch Chardonnay!
Haha! That’s going to be an epic story for her tell one day! Love it.
Rose for me 🙂
Love this blog, your girl is really brave
Acacia has lost 3 teeth in the last month. The first she was quite upset despite the promised tooth fairy visit. What a sweet idea to leave a note! The Tangled Tree Cab Sav is my favourite too 🙂
What an awesome post! Cannot believe your daughter was brave enough to go through with that – if my parents had done that to me, I would have run for the hills! LOL
And what an amazing giveaway to add onto such an awesome post! Definitely want to try the Rose 😀
xxx
Butterscotch Chardonnay for the last few months of summer evenings 😉
Love your blog, I have a 2 1/2 year old son and so many of your entries speak right into what I am needing to hear at the time so thank you for that!
What an exciting time! Well done to the tooth fairy 🙂 I’d love to try the sauvignon blanc!!!
What a novel way of removing a tooth. Awesome, am sharing with my son and daughter-in-law because their 4 year old isn’t far off this major phase of her life.
Forgot to mention that I would love to try the Rose.
Oh, I really need a bottle of Shiraz! Being a working mom makes it a staple in the kitchen!
Wow….your daughter is so brave! In our home we wait until it falls out, with the help of wiggling and fiddling with the loose tooth until it decides to come out 😉 Those wines look lovely, and I would really love to try the Rose. Fingers crossed.
I’m sure that Kyla will never forget how her first tooth came out and now she has a very exciting and original story to tell everyone.
Weirdly enough the part that she retells to anyone who will listen is that the tooth fairy almost got lost on her way to her bed hahaha